Rochelle

Black girls have our own version of the cool girl. The cool black girl is urban but not hood. She’s down enough to use slang her white friends will want to poach, but won’t embarrass them by sounding too black. She’s willing to date white men, but is unbothered when they don’t want to date her. She’s unflinchingly patient and endlessly supportive of the white women around her. And above all else, she never — ever — makes a white person feel uncomfortable about race.

I used to be the coolest black girl.

excerpt from Maya Rupert’s recent piece on Salon.com

Maya gets me.


Making Basic Bling

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